"This article about Japanese Greetings is contributed by Dat Nguyen.
We're grateful for the tips Dat."
Why are Japanese greetings so important?
Japan is a country consisting
of an island chain that is slightly smaller than California.
Is is estimated to have about 126 million people, which is almost four times the number of residents of the state (Calif. has a population of 36 millions).
That is a lot of people on one island.
No wonder they have
tall skyscrapers.
With that many people in one nation, ideas are
bound to bounce off of each other faster.
No wonder new technology innovations keep coming out each year.
Even with all the constant new changes and the fast lifestyles, some things have not changed such as customs and tradition.
One of the customs that remains the same is the
Japanese greeting.
When you meet a person in Japan, you should bow to show your respect. Your palms should be facing your thighs and heels need to be kept together.
The degree of the bow and how long it lasts depend on the
formality of the situation. In a formal setting, how long and how low
you bow your head determine how much respect you have for the other
person.
A word of caution, this does not mean that you should bow
the full 90 degrees. The only time a person would bow this low is to
show his respect when he visits a shrine, grave, or temple. A 45 degree bow will be good enough and
still considered respectful.
The bow should not be longer than
two seconds with the exception of during a prayer, when you should hold
your bow until the prayer ends.
For informal meetings, a nod or a lift of either hand to the level of the head is acceptable (it is like if you were about to wave but minus the wave).
No matter how modern Japan
seems to be, physical contacts are not the custom, no matter how close
the relationship seems to be.
The only slight influence from the Western world to the bowing custom is the handshake.
This refers to the younger generation more than the older or in the cosmopolitan area.
Never force a handshake.
A tip to
know if you should shake hands with the other person is if they offer
their hand first. Most of the time it is a combined with the bow.
Bowing
should not be one time per person per day.
It is best to make sure to bow to a person no matter how many times you see him in a day.
If the
person is an elder, be sure to stop and bow.
Always address people as "Mr." or "Mrs." A simple way to achieve this is by adding the Japanese suffix San to their last name.
For
women, the only time you will notice someone calling each other by her
first name is if they have grown up or work together and only in
informal settings.
There are many cases where women who are neighbors
still call each other by their last name added with San even if they
have known each other for years.
With the men, they will address
each other by first name only if the relationship is close and also only
in an informal setting.
In the work place, the men will still call each other by the last name with San attached at the end.
The only time you
do not have to use the last name and San is when you are talking to
children.
Thanks this article, Dat.
For more about travel in Japan check out Essential Japan Guide for tips from a non-commercial website.
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